1) Rejection
Rejection
is the biggest obstacle in the love life of a shy Dude. True. Why, you ask? Shy guys smell rejection from
where there isn’t one, they smell that sh*t from a mile away. Brain scans have shown
that, the very same brain regions that get activated when we experience
rejection are the same ones that get activated when we experience physical
pain. So shy guys feel the worst pain when they are rejected because emotional
pain is even more painful it last longer that physical pain. If you are a shy
guy, you already know what I mean by this. The truth to the fear of rejection
for shy guys is that, in their past life something might have happened where they
were rejected by some girl they liked, maybe not just from that one girl though,
trust me this things take time stick, but when it does, it’s disastrous. Other
girls as well might have rejected them or make them feel rejected In one way or
the other, I should know I have been there more than a couple times.
2) Proud
Shy
guys may come as proud in the eyes of many but they are not proud. And this is
why. They may act proud, or even look
proud but trust me if you get to know them, you will see who they really are. If
you are shy, you probably don’t know that you are acting proud, rude as fuck. But
what others don’t know either is that, they act proud to protect themselves
from getting hurt or better still, rejected. Here is how it works. The way I see
it, these are the two types of shy guys in the social playground: we have the PRO and THE BEGINNERS.
The
Pro are does who have been shy for
the longest time. They know how to behave and control their shyness but still
talking to chicks still stands as their biggest obstacle. These are guys who
are still shy and only talk to people after some serious considerations, like their
feelings. Socialization is another thing they don’t know how to do. They spend enormous
time on the internet looking for the right things to say to girls and friends,
in other to blend in and be part of that world they desperately want in to.
Then
we have the beginners, who are those
who don’t know how to control their feelings, you can clearly see their shyness
there is no hiding it. We can say they are the opposite of the pro. The pro knows the situations that prompt them
to make a conversation, but the beginners don’t talk at all, they are those kids
that always sit on their own during launch breaks, those kids whom you don’t
even notice in class because they never make noise, they don’t answer questions
in class, not that they don’t know but because they don’t want to be noticed by
any one.
3) Good judge of character
People
who are shy are good judge of character. They can read people like books, not
at first sight though, but as they spend more time with you they read you
better like an open book. When they stay quiet it’s not because they just love
to be quiet, they are reading you to see if you can be trust worthy or if you
will at one point spit the poisonous venom of rejection on them. You can better
describe them as snakes but harmless snakes, they run away from hustle people.
4) Hate being stupid
Shy
guys hate it when people make them feel stupid. Now this is why they hate it.
When you are shy, you feel like drawing attention to yourself will make people judge
you, and that is why shy people are always in the shadows, hardly ever noticed.
One thing shy guys will never say to their guy friends is “I love you even though you hurt me” but they can definitely say
that to their girlfriends that is the lucky ones who have girls friends because
getting a girl for a shy guy is not a walk in the park, not that easy. When
someone makes you feel and look stupid especially when people are around, you feel
like sh*t, like they will laugh at you, and only that thought and the proudness
that shy guys feel might cause them to erupt like a mountain, to react in
anger, that’s how I do it, LOL
5) Hate the attention
Oh
and did I mention that they hate to be noticed? Yeah… I think I did, they are
too quite. Some of them hate to confront people when they do them wrong, which
in other words mean that they don’t like to argue, they worry about people’s
perception of them. So when you do something to offend them they start drifting
away from you gradually until when you notice, that is if your dumb-ass can
even figure it out.
