5 Signs you are a shy guy

Well its official, I am a shy guy and what is even weird is, I like being this guy it’s fun. I mean you get to get your heart pound like crazy when you see a girl you like, or even when she talks to you your lip freeze like ice, oh no wait. Shy guys easily get distracted when any beautiful girl walks by am sure you already know that, because it happens even to those who are not shy. But for shy guys, they wish they had the spirit to walk up to the girl and start a conversation but they can’t because they are scare of rejection. Rejection is just one feature of a shy person, the others are bellow.

1)                                     Rejection

Rejection is the biggest obstacle in the love life of a shy Dude. True.  Why, you ask? Shy guys smell rejection from where there isn’t one, they smell that sh*t from a mile away. Brain scans have shown that, the very same brain regions that get activated when we experience rejection are the same ones that get activated when we experience physical pain. So shy guys feel the worst pain when they are rejected because emotional pain is even more painful it last longer that physical pain. If you are a shy guy, you already know what I mean by this. The truth to the fear of rejection for shy guys is that, in their past life something might have happened where they were rejected by some girl they liked, maybe not just from that one girl though, trust me this things take time stick, but when it does, it’s disastrous. Other girls as well might have rejected them or make them feel rejected In one way or the other, I should know I have been there more than a couple times.

2)                                         Proud

Shy guys may come as proud in the eyes of many but they are not proud. And this is why.  They may act proud, or even look proud but trust me if you get to know them, you will see who they really are. If you are shy, you probably don’t know that you are acting proud, rude as fuck. But what others don’t know either is that, they act proud to protect themselves from getting hurt or better still, rejected. Here is how it works. The way I see it, these are the two types of shy guys in the social playground: we have the PRO and THE BEGINNERS.

The Pro are does who have been shy for the longest time. They know how to behave and control their shyness but still talking to chicks still stands as their biggest obstacle. These are guys who are still shy and only talk to people after some serious considerations, like their feelings. Socialization is another thing they don’t know how to do. They spend enormous time on the internet looking for the right things to say to girls and friends, in other to blend in and be part of that world they desperately want in to.  

Then we have the beginners, who are those who don’t know how to control their feelings, you can clearly see their shyness there is no hiding it. We can say they are the opposite of the pro.  The pro knows the situations that prompt them to make a conversation, but the beginners don’t talk at all, they are those kids that always sit on their own during launch breaks, those kids whom you don’t even notice in class because they never make noise, they don’t answer questions in class, not that they don’t know but because they don’t want to be noticed by any one.

3)                        Good judge of character

People who are shy are good judge of character. They can read people like books, not at first sight though, but as they spend more time with you they read you better like an open book. When they stay quiet it’s not because they just love to be quiet, they are reading you to see if you can be trust worthy or if you will at one point spit the poisonous venom of rejection on them. You can better describe them as snakes but harmless snakes, they run away from hustle people.

4)                             Hate being stupid

Shy guys hate it when people make them feel stupid. Now this is why they hate it. When you are shy, you feel like drawing attention to yourself will make people judge you, and that is why shy people are always in the shadows, hardly ever noticed. One thing shy guys will never say to their guy friends is “I love you even though you hurt me” but they can definitely say that to their girlfriends that is the lucky ones who have girls friends because getting a girl for a shy guy is not a walk in the park, not that easy. When someone makes you feel and look stupid especially when people are around, you feel like sh*t, like they will laugh at you, and only that thought and the proudness that shy guys feel might cause them to erupt like a mountain, to react in anger, that’s how I do it, LOL

5)                              Hate the attention

Oh and did I mention that they hate to be noticed? Yeah… I think I did, they are too quite. Some of them hate to confront people when they do them wrong, which in other words mean that they don’t like to argue, they worry about people’s perception of them. So when you do something to offend them they start drifting away from you gradually until when you notice, that is if your dumb-ass can even figure it out.